Sex dolls for the disabled – a complete guide for newcomers

According to figures from the UK charity Scope, there are 14.1 million disabled people in England – that’s around 8% of the adult population. In the USA, that number rises to 61 million adults, or 26% of the adult population. To put that into perspective, one in every four American adults is currently living with some form of disability. It’s a similar story around the world; in Australia for example, 18% have a disability and 22% are living with a long term health condition. While you may not personally be living with a disability right now, chances are that you may be in the future. You’re highly likely to know someone with a disability, too. “Almost everyone will temporarily or permanently experience disability at some point in their life,” says the World Health Organisation. “Over 1 billion people – about 15% of the global population – currently experience disability, and this number is increasing due in part to population ageing and an increase in the prevalence of noncommunicable diseases.”

Living with any form of disability can be a monumental challenge, impacting everything from job opportunities to leisure, dating and sex to hobbies and interests. Many with disabilities report that it’s hard for them to physically access places such as restaurants or bars, making it difficult to meet people or form intimate relationships. This can lead to a sense of isolation and frustration. The WHO says barriers are often personal and environmental, with common issues including negative attitudes, a lack of accessibility in transport and building design and missing social support. These environmental problems extend further too. There’s also an issue of inclusion and stigma with most conversations around sex and sexuality focused on a stereotypical able-bodied person. Few TV shows, movies or magazine articles depict disabled people in articles about sex and sexuality.

This lack of representation can further compound frustrations and means that there are very few open, honest conversations, information, resources or toys designed or created with disabled people in mind. It's time for a change. Inclusive Design In recent years there has been a growing movement focused on inclusive design principles. This concept has been around longer than you might think, with the British Standards Institute formally recognising the need for inclusive design in 2005. It defines inclusive design as the creation of products and services that are accessible to and usable by as many people as possible, without the requirement of special adaptions. This philosophy is applicable to almost every type of design you can think of, from the obvious such as buildings and public transport infrastructure to everyday necessities such as clothing, technology and even sex toys.

Sex dolls for the disabled are one great example of where design can be inclusive and help to challenge stereotypes. Tackling misconceptions Disability comes in all shapes and sizes and can develop at any point in life. While this poses its own set of challenges at home and in the workplace, it can also have a severe impact in the bedroom. Because there is a lack of representation when it comes to disability and sex, misconceptions are plentiful: • Disabled people aren’t sexually active • Disabled people don’t enjoy sex • Disabled people don’t crave sexual pleasure and intimate relationships • Disabled people aren’t bothered about sex • Disabled people don’t want to experiment with sex toys • Disabled people don’t have the same sexual needs, fantasies and fetishes as able-bodied people • Disabled people aren’t attractive The list goes on and on. These of course are all misconceptions and can make it more difficult still for those living with a disability to openly express those needs or seek a fulfilling intimate relationship.

As we have already seen, living with a disability can be incredibly isolating with physical barriers making it difficult to date and meet new people. That doesn’t mean those needs should go unfulfilled. Sex dolls for the disabled Sex dolls aren’t called the world’s best sex toy for nothing – these ultra-realistic and lifelike dolls mean it’s possible for everyone to have a sexy, willing bedroom partner on demand. Sex dolls aren’t just for the able-bodied, they are also perfect for disabled men and women who crave a submissive, exciting partner who’s always up for experimentation and will never say no.

Another feature that makes modern sex dolls for the disabled a useful, exciting toy is the fact they are portable and mobile. This means the doll can be easily moved into the required position to best facilitate use in a position and location that is most comfortable and practical for the disabled user. What’s more, the doll can be easily moved out of the way when not in use and stored in a cupboard or wardrobe, where it won’t take up valuable floor space or cause a trip hazard or impediment within an adapted home. What should you think about when buying a sex doll if you have a disability?

Buying sex dolls for the disabled actually isn’t all that different to buying a sex doll as a more able person in that you have the complete freedom to select a doll which ticks all of your boxes, from hair and eye colour to cup size and body type. This is arguably one of the most important considerations you can make, so you’ll want to take the time to ensure that you select attributes that you find the most appealing. Thanks to advances in material and design technology, you can also choose a doll which has exactly the body type you desire. From voluptuous to sporty – this is your chance to select a doll you’ll be excited to play with. Another consideration is weight. Today’s super modern dolls are incredibly lifelike and realistic and that extends to their physical shape and weight, too. Depending on the type of disability you have, you may want to pay attention to the stipulated weight of the doll. You’ll find this on each doll’s page, so you can feel comfortable that you’ll be able to move and handle the doll safely and comfortably. Thanks to their clever design and metal skeletons, dolls can be moved into different positions.

This is an important selling point for sex dolls for the disabled as the doll can be posed in a way that feels comfortable to use. Unlike some sex toys, the doll has a wider range of movement, so you can place the doll in a range of positions and locations suited to your own preference and physical capability. A sex doll is almost cost free to maintain, so you don’t need to worry about any unexpected costs and potentially tricky care and maintenance issues. Just be sure to buy a water-based toy cleaner to clean the doll after use. Likewise, you should also add a water-based lube to ramp up your pleasure and ensure mind-blowing fun every time.

Apart from those essentials, there’s really nothing else to worry about when it comes to ensuring you have all you need to enjoy your new sex doll. You can of course add in accessories, such as clothing, as you wish and change those every now and again to keep things fresh and ensure your every fantasy is met. If you’ve found that a disability has stalled your sex life, or made it difficult to meet people with the same tastes, or willingness to experiment, then a sex doll is your ultimate partner and a guaranteed way to enjoy the sex you crave, with none of the challenges that you may find usually accompany meeting a playmate.