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Male sex dolls for homosexuals – could they help you come out?
According to the UK’s Mental Health Foundation, “Mental health problems such as depression, self-harm, alcohol and drug abuse and suicidal thoughts can affect anyone, but they’re more common among people who are LGBTIQ+.
“Being LGBTIQ+ doesn’t cause these problems. But some things LGBTIQ+ people go through can affect their mental health, such as discrimination, homophobia or transphobia, social isolation, rejection, and difficult experiences of coming out.”
Of course, we were already aware of the magnitude of these issues and the fact that much work remains to be done. But reading that sobering reality made us think more about the other areas of life that being afraid to come out to loved ones, co-workers and family members could impact on. An obvious one for us is dating and sex. We all know someone who has struggled to come out. That could be something you yourself are grappling with right now in fact.
So, what happens when you find that the fear of coming out means you’re also forced to miss out on the fun things, like openly dating someone and all of the different ways you could be having sex?
If you’ve only just come to the realization that you may be gay, or haven’t yet found someone to connect with, it could be that you’re also curious about how sex might work, frustrated that you aren’t having enough of it or keen to experiment now that you’re embarking on an exciting new direction.
Gentleman may we suggest, male sex dolls for homosexuals?
Why do you need a sex doll?
It may be that you haven’t thought about getting a sex doll before, but there’s plenty of reasons why investing in one of these lifelike dolls could be one of the best things you ever do for yourself!
- They are great for experimenting
Whether you are a seasoned experimenter and always up for trying new things, or are just starting out on your journey, male sex dolls are the ultimate toy when it comes to testing your limits, trying out your hottest fantasies or even just giving that thing you saw on the Internet a go. The fact is, there’s hardly anything you can’t do with a sex doll that you can with a real life partner.
- They’re perfect for those who haven’t come out
If you haven’t yet come out to your family and circle of friends, trying a high end, ultra-realistic male sex doll is the next best thing to getting it on (and taking everything off) with a man. If you haven’t yet come out, you might not feel comfortable going on dates in public places where you may be seen and be forced to come up with an excuse. You may also find that you can’t invite someone back to your place because your room mates or friends don’t know that your dating a guy. In addition to being emotionally draining, not having that freedom you crave can also be ultra-frustrating in the worst possible way.
Why should you miss out though? Regardless of when or if you plan to come out, indulge your hottest, wildest fantasies in the meantime with a male sex doll. This gives you complete freedom to have as much sex as you want, with no worries of being seen or having to explain before you feel comfortable sharing your journey with others.
- Nothing is taboo
When you’re just beginning to date, it can be hard to bring up your deepest, hottest, most out there fantasies, desires and tastes. Everyone fears rejection and the last thing you need when you’re navigating when and how to tell others about your sexuality is that added pressure and worry.
Again, a sex doll is the perfect solution here because your doll will never say no. No matter what you’re in to or would like to be into, you can freely indulge in even the most taboo of desires, safe in the knowledge that you can enjoy totally judgement (and anxiety) free.
- Learn what you like
If you’ve recently come to the realization that your part of the LGBTIQ+ community, we know that there’ll be lots of issues, decisions and considerations to navigate. Being worried about what others may think or say can be hugely stressful and that can often mean that others reactions, feelings and opinions take over and become the main focus. The problem of course is that the most important person – you – can become lost in the process with all attention and effort being dispersed to keep other people happy. This leaves very little room for you to home in on what makes you happy. If you haven’t yet had the time and space to learn what you like and what you’re in to, male sex dolls make the perfect partner on your journey of discovery.
Not sure what you like in a man? Today’s modern sex dolls are super realistic, with a wide range of body shapes and sizes. You can choose the hair, build and eye colour, along with skin tone and in doing so, begin to learn a little bit more about what you like.
Immediately drawn to the doll in the smart business suit? Or does the computer geek with glasses seem more attractive to you? The great thing about a sex doll is that you can shop around, quite literally, and change key characteristics without hurting anyone’s feelings, to find out exactly what is most pleasing to you.
- Try any position
Variety is the spice of life but you may find that a human partner becomes a bit too complacent, or just doesn’t like the same positions as you. A male sex doll never says no and will never settle into the same boring position day after day. You have the freedom to dictate any position that takes your fancy.
Modern sex dolls are often made from high end silicone with a metal skeleton. This means that you can pose your doll in any position and move into a new position as desired, even while having sex. A premium male sex doll will give you the freedom to stand against a wall for example, position on a flat surface such as a bed, on a chair or even in the shower.
How to use your doll
When your sex doll arrives, you might want to try it out right away but a few extra preparations beforehand can supercharge your enjoyment.
If you opt for a silicone or TPE doll, you can expect your toy to feel nice to the touch but, you can make your doll even more realistic to ramp up your pleasure by heating it up a little. This gives the doll a human skin type touch and all it takes is covering the doll with a heated blanket for 10 or so minutes. Easy.
Another thing you’ll want to do is stock up on water-based lube. Don’t use anything that contains silicone or other chemicals as this could degrade the material of the doll. Apply a little lube to the doll’s mouth and anal orifice, as well as its penis (did we mention you can totally choose the penis size of your doll?). Don’t add tons of lube, just introduce a little water to reactivate the lube you applied initially.
Get your accessories ready while you’re waiting for your doll to arrive and then have them handy when the doll is warming up. The sky is the limit here. Handcuffs. Whips. Costumes. Shop around and see what excites you and purchase a few accessories that you’re most intrigued by. It’s only by experimenting that you will understand what you do and don’t get off on. Not to mention, that total freedom to be in complete control, to explore your deepest desires, recreate the hottest porn videos you’ve ever seen in your own home or even just have always been curious about – is the perfect recipe to turbocharge your pleasure.
Don’t forget the clean up either. We know this is not the sexiest of subjects but, if you clean your doll, it’s more likely to last longer, which means many more years of enjoyment on demand. Even just a quick five or 10 minute clean which sees you remove the anal and mouth sleeves and detachable penis and wash with a water-based toy cleaner will help to prolong the life of your doll, ensures it stays hygienic and more importantly – ready to be used at a moment’s notice the next time you want to experiment and enjoy.
The last thing is simply to be aware of how you store your doll so it doesn’t get damaged or dented. A male sex doll designed for gay men does represent a financial investment so ensure you don’t store it clothed or wearing accessories, and don’t store in an awkward position. Hang up if you can and keep covered to remove dust or stains.